Yu wada Grade 10B
#36 (page 149-152) Eighth Month, Third Day
24 September 1949 Year of the Ox
In this letter the author has described Suang U’s point of view towards Thailand and his son Weng Khim’s recent attitude. Several years have passed since he came to live in Thailand, however seems like he hasn’t completely acknowledged Thailand as his home. He has great pride of himself as Chinese person. Therefore he doesn’t want his son to become more Thai instead of Chinese. The way of his thinking and education has create the main conflict in this letter.
As this letter starts, the author has written about Suang U’s problem by using first person narrative. He was afraid of his son get closer to the to Thai community and get further away from being Chinese. Suang U said “My child has to speak Chinese at home” (page 149), this was the beginning sentence of the main conflict in this letter. He had confessed his problem to his wife’s sister Ang Buai. However his wife does not completely agree with him though as there were lots of Chinese who were born in Thailand and grew up speaking Thai. It seems like she has nothing to worry about Weng Khim’s life style, moreover she was protecting Weng Khim from Suang U. As the story continues the conflict becomes bigger and bigger. Suang U tries to control Weng Khim’s activity by making him stay away from the Thai lifestyle. “… Then Father take him to school. Most of the neighboring children walk alone, but I don’t trust the traffic. At noon someone takes him a hot lunch from kitchen, for although he could buy noodles on the street, he isn’t used to such food.….On Sunday afternoon, he usually goes for a car ride with Ang Buai, but allow that only when he has nothing more important to do.” (Page 151). This quote tells us as readers that his great pride has influenced him do this in order to protect his son’s future as Chinese and for own his pride. In the end Suang U has to withdraw him self from the conflict because of Ang Buai’s stubbornness and he decides to give Ang Buai time to think.
From this Letter we can see the Suang U’s viewpoint towards Thailand. He has compared the environment of China with Thailand. This quote has proved this. “I suppose you think I ought to raise him as a Thai, eh? Let him run through the streets half-naked like those urchins outside? Never! I suppose you’d like to see him dirty and wild, ‘enjoying himself’ and dependent on his parents until he’s a parent himself―no respect, no fear, no sense! He is seeing how we get taught, Ang Buai, what life is all about. How we Chinese work hard and stick together, and take care of our sae brothers…The love of a father is more than indulgence and sentimentality.” (Page 151). These sentences give us enough images of differences between the culture of China and Thailand. From his sentence I can understand he believes that Chinese people have more respect towards their ancestors and more responsible for their clan. However on the other hand In Thailand, they are more free and wild. Hence Suang U thinks this will affect Weng Khim in bad way and will bring shame on his clan.
The main theme of this letter is based on the preservation of culture. Suang U was trying to control his son’s activity by making him stay away from the Thai lifestyle. He demanded WengKhim and Ang Buai to accept about his opinion. However they, especially Ang Buai, don’t agree and are against his opinion. She was doing this for Weng Khim’s good. However from Suang U, he also thinks that he is doing for his son’s good. He thinks it is the worst case for Weng Khim to forgot his mother tongue language. “Sai keep speaking Thai to Weng Khim. He gets more than enough of it at his school” (Page 149) This also becomes a pressure for him so that makes his opinion about the education of Weng Khim as a Chinese much stronger. Suang U will thinks that if this happens it will bring shame ti his clan since he is person who respects his culture. Therefore he really demands Weng Khim to understand his position and for that he needs Ang Buai’s agreement. Suang U had said “I know what I’m doing, Ang Buai. He will be a disciplined human being, a person who knows how to use time. He is learning that work is noble, not just an irksome necessity.” (Page 151). This is a strong sentence that used by Suang U to make Ang Buai to understand about how Chinese people value their work. Chinese people are likely to educate their children to be hard workers, to make them understand the value of precious time and difficulty of gaining money. This was everything Suang U has learned since he was little from his culture, and now he is having a trouble passing on the culture because they are living in a complete different environment. The other theme can be now in contrast to the future. Suang U that thinking the importance of Weng Khim’s future and Ang Buai that protecting Weng Khim’s “now”.
As I recognised from this letter, there were lots of sentences that have been produced by the characters instead of narrator, this is to make the conflict more realistic for reader. This is useful because we can imagine the characters feelings and thoughts. Therefore we can understand the feeling of both sides. Suang U’s desire that wants to educate Weng Khim as Chinese and Ang Buai’s desire that wants Suang U to realise that his opinions will only make Weng Khim suffer. These are two opinions that could not agree.
Suang U had did this in order to make Weng Khim happy in future, instead of now. Therefore Suang U and Ang Bai, they both think about Weng Khim’s happiness, it just they have different beliefs and thoughts.